Taking responsibility for my own life

For a long time I was going to write an article about "life and responsibility" article. That was in last year, in a friend's space see him the article "" the man's bottom line" about it ". Friends wrote: "the man is the bottom line", this is a story of two successful middle-aged man of movies, and performed in WeiHaiFeng and zhao access two middle-aged man work, family life as the main line, although speak of the article is to build a high-speed, but in fact the flat director and writer with we kept discussed in in this colorful world, as a man how to deal with good career, family relationship, how to undergo an all sorts of temptation, and discussed as a man, and he does have a bottom line, if have what it really is.
I think, the man especially married man is, of course, the bottom line is the bottom line, he is more of a liability, the responsibility of the family, is responsible for. Some people said it is a man of good, is whether women see whether his career success, whether can give women after the success brings achievement; See a woman is good, see the man in the low tide, a sense of loss when if you can, as always, is good for him. In fact this society, for the moment at least this society, still the man, the man has the obligation to the society, also have a responsibility to instigate the burden of family, the society is more look down upon those who eat soft rice; But in addition, aren't there? Remember WeiHaiFeng and embrace the ShenCongCong said that sentence? "Predestination!" And in fact this is the man who had to face the line, because you have family, because you are RenFu father, so you'll have to do the duty!
Alas, not with a sigh: the elder brothers ah, let's men really not easy, originally weight shoulders will become social against the column ZhongLiang!!!!! "
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I was to his comment is this: "I think, human life, should first take responsibility for his own life. Both men and women. Because life for we only once! We Chinese women in particular, sorrow is that life is not his own. For the husband alive, for children alive, for parents alive, for the cause for almost all living... everything is responsible, but it happened not responsible for oneself! So, on his deathbed to regret it shut his eyes: I not the things you want to do not do! That I like good rare red skirt I haven't willing to part with or use the money to buy the?... sad!! My countrymen only first take responsibility for his own life, will not make this life, will this life!!!!! No will be beautiful like summer flowers and death like a brilliant autumn leaves! Take responsibility for his own life, in fact also is to family of relatives is in charge. Because when you attach great importance to the quality of life of yourself, you won't well worth-while, you won't sustain them while they sit around, you will refuse to mediocre, you will seek excellent, you'll really be in one hand, to become a good success!"
B: yes, it should be said, our Chinese nation is a very exquisite "responsibility" for the nation. Especially the man, I'm afraid I accepts since childhood discipline is "filial piety" word, "the pledge good filial first". So, they raised below the responsibility parents, QiXiao, provoked a family beam!!!!! And the woman? In a wife is a mother, seem to end of his own life. For the husband for children and began to live, and only then, would be considered "understanding wife and loving mother", get social and family and recognition.